What do you do?

How do you spend your day?

By reading about this person or that person?
By watching videos of what this person said or that person said?
By thinking about what this person said or that person said  or what you think abt this or that?
By talking about everything or just ur imagination?

Or by being aware that all those are just stories.
And if you even think/talk/watch/read about a story that also is a story.

So i

So i see.
So i hear.
So i smell.
So i feel.
So i understand.
So i think.

So the question is, why are each of those so important.
What you did, It's gone already. The deed is done. It doesn't mean it won't happen  again.
But when it does happen again, or when its gone why do i make such a big deal?
Just Remember that you will see, hear, smell, feel, understand, and think again.
Because that's what you are hear to do, no matter what you have or don't have, who is with you or who is not with you. You will do those things again.

Go After.

Don't ignore what you are able to see with your eyes in front of you.
Don't ignore what you can hear with your ears right where you are.
Don't ignore what you can smell with your nose.
Don't ignore what you can touch with your hands/legs.
Don't ignore what you can understand at the moment.

Perceive what you can, before you go after what you cannot perceive.

Go after what can be seen.
Go after what can be heard.
Go after what can be smelled
Go after what can be touched.
Go after what can be understood.

Effort

It takes no special talent to yell/scream at someone,
It’s easy to lash out when you are angry or disappointed.
But to lead with dignity, composure, kindness, lovingness and self-awareness?
That takes effort.
That takes maturity.

Know where you are putting your effort. Don't waste your time in doing things,

that don't add any value,

that doesn't help in knowing about you, 

that doesn't help you overcome your weakness, 

that doesn't make you mature.